Another repost. 🙂
This is not a post that says ‘WHAT IS WRONG WITH HUMANITY?!” because we all want to say it anyway, so why repeat ourselves?
Perhaps this is the first time I have properly come across such a thing, but I was flabbergasted. I was so naively shocked. Perhaps because I have heard so many advocates for feminism, and read so many articles written by passionate feminists, that I thought the majority of society was now feminist. Mainstream media is feminist! We have Buzzfeed to thank for that.
So when I googled ‘Amy Schumer’ out of interest because of a movie trailer I saw and liked, and saw that the first thing that came up after an official wikipedia page was ‘Amy Schumer shows off tummy in grungy grey outfit in New York City‘ I thought, nah, this can’t be right.
So I clicked on it and was directed to a page like none I have ever seen in my LIFE before.
I honestly thought it was a parody, because of how ridiculous it was.
It HAD to be a joke.
This is literally how it goes:
Amy went out for a walk.
Amy looked amazing yesterday, but today her tiny tummy which isn’t as flat as most Hollywood women’s are, dared to stick out.
We will subtly acknowledge how disgusting that is, but in a very roundabout way.
Also might mention her ‘weight problems’ because why not highlight the fact that this article is really about how FAT Amy is.
My goodness, she is a body positive woman, isn’t she.
Poor thing.
Oh, Amy is feeling hot so she took off her cardie.
Amy’s shoes appear to be comfortable.
Some crappy things that white males have said about her.
Some comments underneath by angered anonymous people sitting comfortably behind screens, their bellies hanging over the keyboard: ‘i don’t care how much you weigh but get pants that fit.’ and ‘Are you serious? Put it away. not cute.‘ and ‘People seriously want to bed her cause she’s famous? Gross.’
Because, of course, those are the only kinds of people articles such as these would attract.
This was from the Daily Mail. A paper that is supposed to be reputable.
Overall vibe of the article: ‘My goodness! Doesn’t Amy look drab! Grey days for Amy! Yesterday she was on fire at the awards show but today… poor Amy.’
Looking at the photo, squinting, trying my best to see where exactly she looked ‘drab’. What, so a woman has to look like she is going to a party everyday?
Here’s the thing though. I went hunting for ‘showbiz’ articles about men. You see, if they did the same thing to men; dissected their outfits down to their homey-day smelly socks, if they talked about their weight and their ‘shameful!’ bit of tummy peeking out, I would have got on with my life dismissing it all as a profoundly odd aspect of tv-showbiz news.
But there was not a single article discussing a male actor’s ‘body positivity’ or his ‘extra bit of tummy hanging out — ooh, not pretty’ or ‘his trainers are a decent buy for this power walk’.
Not a single one.
Welcome, folks, to the twenty first century. Enjoy your stay. Make sure, if you’re famous and a woman, that you don’t dare have a human tummy and NEVER go out without makeup. It would be a travesty if you did.
I think society just enjoys pointing at famous people and saying look how ugly they are without makeup/studio lighting/photoshop. I think it makes people feel better about their own negative body images. Apparently famous women aren’t allowed to age, be non-skinny or appear as anything other than a goddess 😁
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I’m sick of this, too.
Too much talking about artists’ looks, and not their works. It doesn’t matter whether Lana Del Rey or Amy Schumer or Frances McDormant are pretty. What matters is the product/art they do.
Film is a visual medium and appearance matters, but it matters more for expressive purposes. I don’t find Frances McDormant very good-looking, but I don’t care. She’s versatile and knows what to do in the films she’s in. That’s the only thing that matters.
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Society has been socialised into being superficial, and I think the more we speak up about it, the more awareness there will be!
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Over the years I have seen different pictures of celebs when they start to age or get heavy or whatever and comments regarding this as “look how bad this celebrity looks”. Makes me ever so grateful for not being a celebrity and having the world think I shouldn’t age or have a human body.
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I couldn’t agree more. It’s a sad thing that people have to put up with this scrutiny but I suppose when you are in the public eye people feel free to comment about every aspect of your being. Nobody is perfect!
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And, what gets me, is that ‘we’ think we have a right to say whatever and whenever, with no responsibility to who we may be hurting. 😦
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The Daily Mail is not very reputable, I’m afraid. It was a mid-market paper in the UK for a long time, and a pretty right-wing one. It has never been a friend of such things as feminism, environmentalism or immigration. it’s online version is an utter rag. The articles are terrible. Quite apart from the prejudice they frequently display (in my opinion, at least), they are very often also shockingly badly written.
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I am learning this more and more daily, unfortunately. I don’t really read it but a lot of people buy it, (I used to sell newspapers at the hospital) and it’s sad that people are being fed utter trash and relish it too.
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Yes, when I read Google News, I very occasionally link to the Daily Mail if there’s a big story that I’m following on every source I can find. I usually want to wash my hands after my visit, though.
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Hahaa! Well you know you can’t really trust any news source as there is going to be bias depending on whatever corporation they are a part of. Even the BBC can be biased in their news stories.
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Probably best to look at a range of sources and hope that the biases cancel out.
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Good thinking. Otherwise you work yourself into a frenzy trying to figure out what the real news is (well I do anyways)
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That right! 🙂
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